For the Jewish singles dads and mums
What about the kids knowing ? What’s to know !
They think we’re dead ? Nah,
Especially, if the date is Jewish. They’ll see continuity, belonging,commonality.
Ladies, seize the day! When you feel that you may have good chemistry with a guy, for goodness sakes, ASK HIM OUT! My last girlfriend asked me out. I was totally flattered and excited. Keep in mind, only two percent of people in the US are Jewish, only 1% is the opposite sex, and to find that person in your generation–wow the odds are tough. So, see a sexy Jewish dude–don’t be shy–ask em’ out.
Be honest! come on, say it if you want to go home and say it if you are having a good time!
One thing that I have learned is that it does both people a lot more good if they are out-right honest with each other–within reason. If you’re not having a good time on a date, say so. Be nice about it of course, but say something. You never know, that could be the icebreaker needed to get you to actually talk to each other.
- Having a shower and being well groomed is not ”pass`e”…
- I know it may sound petty, but I find it quite insulting when my date – (first time or otherwise) – does not show me the courtesy of arriving to our meeting clean and well groomed. Could you imagine, a guy I met (only once, of course) showed up to our evening dinner date holding his briefcase in one hand, and a doggie-bag with leftover lunch goodies in the other?
Yes!! be yourself but :
Do….. be yourself on the date. Act as crazy as you normally are.
Remember that she wants to have fun, just like you do. Plan a fun date.
Don’t …… try to be more yeshivishe than you are. Leave the costume (hat, jacket, gemara) at home.
